Saturday, February 21, 2009
How to Get My Ex Back - For Those That Are Serious
If you are serious about wanting to get your ex back you will most certainly benefit from what T Dub has to say below. Believe it or not there are words that if used correctly will literally make your ex feel almost compelled to get in touch with you ? - Sounds crazy I know but I'm proof that it works. And for you guys ( or should I say boys ) that have come across my blog this will work for you to.
Click here to Learn More About How to Get Your Ex Back
I used these techniques and they worked real good for me (and others also - check out the video) so they should work for you too.
One of the things he talks about for example which helped me alot and something I must admit I wouldn't have know the importance of without his help was the whole area of "what not to say". Yes there are things you definitely should not say, should not do or even worse if you do - can put you at a major psychological disadvantage.
For example here are 2 things you most definitely should not consider using at all ( If I'd have know these in advance then I would have never made these mistakes either so please don't take this approach. I have listed them here to help you only. The names I use here are just made up but I am sure you get the idea )
The Plea
This may go something like - "George please call me I really have to talk to you"
The Emergency
Which may go something like , "Sandra, Phil here I need to speak with you urgently - Please call me as soon as you get this message"
Okay these may seem obvious here but you can see why this approach does not work but you would be surprised how many people have tried this route and mostly to no avail. I admittedly was guilty of both options above and on more than one occasion too.
So...
lets now talk about what you should use and when you combine them they have to power to work magic for you - so what are they - Curiosity & Self Interest yep, two of the most powerful forces in the human mind .
Lets look at how you can put this into action and what you could say that works every time. In a friendly tone you could say something like
"Hi Gorge its Cindy - Listen I just wanted to thank you for that but would rather thank you in person so if you get a chance you might give me a call back."
Do you see how different this appraoch is - George will be curious as to what he did and will be wondering what is it that Cindy appreciated so much - This is much more of a positive message.
**** But Major Word of Warning *****
I have a word of warning though - before you make the call you need to figure out what your "George" did that you appreciated so much. In other words you need to have a well defined plan thought out ( if you want help on that then just head on over to
"How to Get My Ex Back "....
what he explains in his free video you can implement straight away).
Failure to implement this plan correctly will do more harm than good so be sure to do this right - Makes sense I hope so -
Talk Soon
Sandy
Click here to Learn More About How to Get Your Ex Back
I used these techniques and they worked real good for me (and others also - check out the video) so they should work for you too.
One of the things he talks about for example which helped me alot and something I must admit I wouldn't have know the importance of without his help was the whole area of "what not to say". Yes there are things you definitely should not say, should not do or even worse if you do - can put you at a major psychological disadvantage.
For example here are 2 things you most definitely should not consider using at all ( If I'd have know these in advance then I would have never made these mistakes either so please don't take this approach. I have listed them here to help you only. The names I use here are just made up but I am sure you get the idea )
The Plea
This may go something like - "George please call me I really have to talk to you"
The Emergency
Which may go something like , "Sandra, Phil here I need to speak with you urgently - Please call me as soon as you get this message"
Okay these may seem obvious here but you can see why this approach does not work but you would be surprised how many people have tried this route and mostly to no avail. I admittedly was guilty of both options above and on more than one occasion too.
So...
lets now talk about what you should use and when you combine them they have to power to work magic for you - so what are they - Curiosity & Self Interest yep, two of the most powerful forces in the human mind .
Lets look at how you can put this into action and what you could say that works every time. In a friendly tone you could say something like
"Hi Gorge its Cindy - Listen I just wanted to thank you for that but would rather thank you in person so if you get a chance you might give me a call back."
Do you see how different this appraoch is - George will be curious as to what he did and will be wondering what is it that Cindy appreciated so much - This is much more of a positive message.
**** But Major Word of Warning *****
I have a word of warning though - before you make the call you need to figure out what your "George" did that you appreciated so much. In other words you need to have a well defined plan thought out ( if you want help on that then just head on over to
"How to Get My Ex Back "....
what he explains in his free video you can implement straight away).
Failure to implement this plan correctly will do more harm than good so be sure to do this right - Makes sense I hope so -
Talk Soon
Sandy
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